changes is good if it's a good change.

a girl is just being a girl when she concerns too much on 'benda2 remeh',

meanwhile, a guy is just being a guy when he ignores the 'remeh-temeh' stuff.

and the mixture of both situations would lead 2 a perfect battlefield if both parties or enough 4 just 1 side 2 do some 'exaggeration' on that matter.

2 avoid the 'exaggeration', a person must be perfectly stable, emotionally.

anger management plays crucial role in this particular situation.

n of course it is not an easy thing 2 do, but it's worth trying 4 the sake of ur relationship.

i always said this to my friends;

"pemahaman n penerimaan are 2 different things"

sometimes u really understand the fact of the things that happen but it's a little difficult 4 u 2 accept because it could be against ur principle n stuff.

but 2 make a relationship works, tolerance is required.

so 2 stop the madness, take some times 2 cool down.

really.

as much times as u need.

excuse urself from ur partner so that u won't spit words that shouldn't be spitted.

use the time wisely 2 reduce the anger.

talk 2 ur friends.

or if they are not available, go Google some facts on men and women.

why?

because facts would bring u back 2 ur senses.

and it would make u realize both of u are just being who we are.

a man n a woman.

a guy n a girl.

we are just human being that never slipped from doing mistakes.

but we must learn from every single mistakes that we did.

we need a lot of guidances and practices in order 2 become a better person n a better partner.

n life is all about learning process.

but sometimes i wonder,

when we are compromising or do some tolerance in our relationship,

does that mean we are not being who we are?

because in doing that we need 2 sacrifice some of our principles or norms or wutever.

we need 2 change!??

but when i think again all of the process is 4 the sake of making each other comfortable n happy.

changes is good if it's a good change.

n 1 thing 4 sure, nobody's perfect!

they are is who they are.

but b4 u wanna go out there n look 4 somebody perfect,

feel please 2 spend some times analyzing the 'perfection' in urself.

savvy? ;]

p/s;all the talking is from observation, reading, experiences, n stories.i'm here 2 share n learn.

::Suhadanuar::