changes is good if it's a good change.

a girl is just being a girl when she concerns too much on 'benda2 remeh',

meanwhile, a guy is just being a guy when he ignores the 'remeh-temeh' stuff.

and the mixture of both situations would lead 2 a perfect battlefield if both parties or enough 4 just 1 side 2 do some 'exaggeration' on that matter.

2 avoid the 'exaggeration', a person must be perfectly stable, emotionally.

anger management plays crucial role in this particular situation.

n of course it is not an easy thing 2 do, but it's worth trying 4 the sake of ur relationship.

i always said this to my friends;

"pemahaman n penerimaan are 2 different things"

sometimes u really understand the fact of the things that happen but it's a little difficult 4 u 2 accept because it could be against ur principle n stuff.

but 2 make a relationship works, tolerance is required.

so 2 stop the madness, take some times 2 cool down.

really.

as much times as u need.

excuse urself from ur partner so that u won't spit words that shouldn't be spitted.

use the time wisely 2 reduce the anger.

talk 2 ur friends.

or if they are not available, go Google some facts on men and women.

why?

because facts would bring u back 2 ur senses.

and it would make u realize both of u are just being who we are.

a man n a woman.

a guy n a girl.

we are just human being that never slipped from doing mistakes.

but we must learn from every single mistakes that we did.

we need a lot of guidances and practices in order 2 become a better person n a better partner.

n life is all about learning process.

but sometimes i wonder,

when we are compromising or do some tolerance in our relationship,

does that mean we are not being who we are?

because in doing that we need 2 sacrifice some of our principles or norms or wutever.

we need 2 change!??

but when i think again all of the process is 4 the sake of making each other comfortable n happy.

changes is good if it's a good change.

n 1 thing 4 sure, nobody's perfect!

they are is who they are.

but b4 u wanna go out there n look 4 somebody perfect,

feel please 2 spend some times analyzing the 'perfection' in urself.

savvy? ;]

p/s;all the talking is from observation, reading, experiences, n stories.i'm here 2 share n learn.

::Suhadanuar::

hati TAK berkata-kata

omg!it has been a while,isn't it? ;D

dah lame 'hati TAK berkata-kata'..hehe!

actually, there's so much stuff that i would like 2 share,

yet the aura of laziness is all over me..huhu!

but right now i feel like writing. so let's begin? ;]

1st thing 1st; CAREER TALK.

i'm on my practical training for 3 n a half month.

i'm majoring in PUBLIC RELATIONS but basically right now i'm doing almost everything, such as news writing, publishing, event management, administration thingy, n all that.

but from what i can see what i'm doing is more on JOURNALISM.

still, i'm having fun doing my internship over there! :D

the people are quite nice n fun (so far).

n it's probably less pressure compare 2 private company (mine is semi-gov),

still, i'm trying my very best 2 gain as much experience as possible ;]

but the question is;is JOURNALISM really suits me?how bout PR?can i really keep up with the chaos of the job n my family n my life?

i wonder....

2nd things of all;A LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP.

since i'm in the middle of 1 rite now it becomes one of my biggest concern.

we both are not that far far away from each other.

i'm in Bangi while he's in Seremban.

but we rarely meet because of transportation+financial+family commitments constrains.

it's quite a struggle y'know?

in any relationship especially a long distance require lots n lots n lots of TRUST!

u'll definitely failed if u lack of it!

because u only have him 2 tell u everything,whether truth or lie.

besides that, from most of my reading on this matter, they keep on mentioning on CONSTANT COMMUNICATION and VARIATION OF INTERACTION.

n 1 thing 4 sure,DON'T DON'T n DON'T EVER ASSUME!

a friend of mine once said 2 me "setan kan suke jentik hati kite."

"but we always have ALLAH on our side." :]

in everything we do let's just try our very best because ALLAH MAHA ADIL n MAHA MENGETAHUI.

if our partner or could be ourselves are doing 'something' on the side,

eventually the truth will come out, INSYALLAH.. :]

2 be honest,

me myself are still struggling 2 handle my relationship with my bf.

because; I AM A MESS!

i got few issues with myself that i MUST counter them quick!

n it's quite a challenge 4 him 2 deal with me.

so i'm so hoping that he could hang tough while i'm trying.

please eh,sayang? ;]

well,i think that's all 4 now.

or else this entry won't reach an end.hehe!

until then! ;]

::SuhadanuaR::